Still Sarah

My partner of over 18 years was diagnosed with Alzheimer's about 7 years ago when Sarah was 60. The first few years the changes were slow but the past 2-3 years the changes and decline have been rapid and challenging. A couple of years ago Sarah was diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia. This dementia takes your loved one with the disease, and their loved ones and caregivers on a particularly cruel roller coaster journey. About a year ago we finally had to move Sarah to a assisted-living facility that specializes in care for residents with Alzheimer's and Dementia only. Although this facility is wonderful and close by (10 minute drive) - putting Sarah in this facility was the worst day of my life. Beyond all the special ways they care for Sarah, I also can bring our beloved dog Dixie to visit Sarah and others at her new home. They often take naps together. We've been surrounded by many loving and supportive family, friends, and caregivers. Without them this would have all been unbearable as we've gone through so many stages of loss and change. I've been learning to take it one day at a time for a while now and just honor the way Sarah needs to be - no matter how challenging or needy. Sarah's inner core is still very much there and we are blessed to witness her grace, caring spirit with other residents, dancing, love, and humor. She is very much "Still Sarah".

Theresa Thompson
Bloomington, IN